1. Helping is giving, you must have something to give likewise you must own some skills to help.
2. Helping is to reduce people's works and increase your own.
3. Helping should come from willingness.
4. Helping is not necessarily easy, but it makes people happy to do.
5. When you are forced to help then it's not real help.
6. If you expect something to return after helping, it's not helping, it's a trade.
7. If after receiving your help, people don't say thank you or are even ungrateful and there's still no anger fire in your mind, then you are a true giving helper.
8. If you feel it's hard to accept people who are ungrateful when getting your help, then you might highly evaluate your own help while it's just a small tiny thing to them.
9. Just do the vice versa, start helping people with small tiny not worth mentioning things which you might even forget right after helping, while they still keep it in mind for the rest of their lives for no reasons.
10. Real helps will make you happy and manifest a lot of auspicious things happen when you even don't expect it. Then don't hesitate to help when you still can.
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